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Posted Sep 18, 2008 7:28pm by meltwindy

How to keep a long distance relationship

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: YunRui on Sep 18, 2008 8:17pm

Short question...long answer. But, my short answer is: patience, commitment, honesty, constant communicating, value in the end result.

Stay Hungry!

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: pekie on Sep 18, 2008 11:21pm

with all ur heart, if u really care about the relationship

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: Danmairen on Sep 19, 2008 12:36am

Don't

(Brian starts singing)
Stewie : Hey, who sings that song?
Brian: James Taylor.
Stewie: Let's keep it that way.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: stcroix2bj on Sep 19, 2008 12:37am

you keep it long distance by staying away from each other

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 19, 2008 9:26am
pekie wrote:
with all ur heart, if u really care about the relationship

I am sure this is not the answer I want.
plus it's easy to say than do.

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 19, 2008 9:26am
Danmairen wrote:
Don't

what a good answer

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: seabreeze98 on Sep 19, 2008 10:04am

If it's for short period, it's workable. Long period, better find another one. Too much aggro.

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: lodgerly on Sep 19, 2008 11:47am
seabreeze98 wrote:
If it's for short period, it's workable. Long period, better find another one. Too much aggro.

Agreed.

How long are you planning for? A life long?

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: V on Sep 19, 2008 12:06pm
lodgerly wrote:
seabreeze98 wrote:
If it's for short period, it's workable. Long period, better find another one. Too much aggro.

Agreed.

How long are you planning for? A life long?

Some people can go a long time. Aung San Suu Kyi was married to a Brit. She's been in detention in Burma since 1989 and I'm sure the criminals in power would love it if she volunteered to leave the country. Sadly, after 10 years in detention, her husband developed cancer, but was denied permission to enter Burma to see his wife before he died. But she still chooses to stay. Different people have different thresholds of pain when it comes to separation.

Cheers,

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: beijingcat on Sep 19, 2008 4:26pm

ya u can definitely go for one as a 'soul'-mate;-P

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 19, 2008 5:16pm
seabreeze98 wrote:
If it's for short period, it's workable. Long period, better find another one. Too much aggro.

how long is a long period? Smile

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: lodgerly on Sep 19, 2008 5:25pm
V wrote:

Some people can go a long time. Aung San Suu Kyi was married to a Brit. She's been in detention in Burma since 1989 and I'm sure the criminals in power would love it if she volunteered to leave the country. Sadly, after 10 years in detention, her husband developed cancer, but was denied permission to enter Burma to see his wife before he died. But she still chooses to stay. Different people have different thresholds of pain when it comes to separation.

Cheers,

Wei shen me???

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 19, 2008 5:30pm
lodgerly wrote:
V wrote:

Some people can go a long time. Aung San Suu Kyi was married to a Brit. She's been in detention in Burma since 1989 and I'm sure the criminals in power would love it if she volunteered to leave the country. Sadly, after 10 years in detention, her husband developed cancer, but was denied permission to enter Burma to see his wife before he died. But she still chooses to stay. Different people have different thresholds of pain when it comes to separation.

Cheers,

Wei shen me???

Different people have different thresholds of pain when it comes to separation.

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: V on Sep 19, 2008 7:39pm
lodgerly wrote:
V wrote:

Some people can go a long time. Aung San Suu Kyi was married to a Brit. She's been in detention in Burma since 1989 and I'm sure the criminals in power would love it if she volunteered to leave the country. Sadly, after 10 years in detention, her husband developed cancer, but was denied permission to enter Burma to see his wife before he died. But she still chooses to stay. Different people have different thresholds of pain when it comes to separation.

Cheers,

Wei shen me???

Perhaps her over-riding love is for her country. After all, she was elected as president of the country (with 90% of the vote) and the generals in power just ignored the result and arrested her.

Truly a sad case.

Cheers,

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 19, 2008 8:48pm

you have to figure out a lot of things by your own
thats what I learned, enough tho.

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: PSX on Sep 19, 2008 11:58pm

it never worked, dont waste time.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 20, 2008 1:58pm
PSX wrote:
it never worked, dont waste time.

did you ever try before? or you just think it's too difficult?

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: seabreeze98 on Sep 20, 2008 2:17pm

I tried before. Really tried. Gave up eventually. Please don't ask me more details. It lasted about 2 years.

meltwindy wrote:
did you ever try before? or you just think it's too difficult?

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 20, 2008 2:39pm
seabreeze98 wrote:
I tried before. Really tried. Gave up eventually. Please don't ask me more details. It lasted about 2 years.

meltwindy wrote:
did you ever try before? or you just think it's too difficult?

I am not going to.

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: johnnybigstar on Sep 20, 2008 3:03pm

yup, unless it's really short term i believe 99% of them wont last and will cause nothing but long lonely hours, sleepless nights, and constant agitation.
i did one for 3 months..it was hell, and i would never agree to do it again, although we did last the 3 months till we got back together, physically that is. but i'm sure any longer than 3months and it would have ended. sorry, good luck

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 20, 2008 7:48pm
johnnybigstar wrote:
yup, unless it's really short term i believe 99% of them wont last and will cause nothing but long lonely hours, sleepless nights, and constant agitation.
i did one for 3 months..it was hell, and i would never agree to do it again, although we did last the 3 months till we got back together, physically that is. but i'm sure any longer than 3months and it would have ended. sorry, good luck

you probably won't believe it but I did it for 14 months so far and I think I am gonna have to wait for another 8 months.

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: babylion on Sep 20, 2008 9:18pm

never wanna know.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 20, 2008 9:29pm
babylion wrote:
never wanna know.

good for you

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: sabrinad on Sep 24, 2008 12:50am

have one plan for future, same aim.

Don't let complexity stop you. Be activists.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: babochina on Sep 24, 2008 12:06pm

some people i know have been holding on it for 5y and they both look happy and satisfied

but they see each other every 3 months or so and stay in touch by phone, mail, msn whatever

depends of ur character and ur relation

got to be patient, well grounded, and emotionnally self sufficient
if u re the passionate, emotional kind,
just give up

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: meltwindy on Sep 24, 2008 3:38pm
babochina wrote:
some people i know have been holding on it for 5y and they both look happy and satisfied

but they see each other every 3 months or so and stay in touch by phone, mail, msn whatever

depends of ur character and ur relation

got to be patient, well grounded, and emotionnally self sufficient
if u re the passionate, emotional kind,
just give up

correct
I cant agree anymore

To be or not to be, that's never a question.

Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: Deeh on Oct 2, 2011 11:50am
johnnybigstar wrote:
yup, unless it's really short term i believe 99% of them wont last and will cause nothing but long lonely hours, sleepless nights, and constant agitation.
i did one for 3 months..it was hell, and i would never agree to do it again, although we did last the 3 months till we got back together, physically that is. but i'm sure any longer than 3months and it would have ended. sorry, good luck

3 months.... precisely.

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: 56785678 on Oct 2, 2011 12:59pm

Long distance relationship is as easy as how you keep in touch with your mum.

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Re: How to keep a long distance relationship

Posted by: Lipstick on Oct 11, 2011 3:06pm

better let him\her free.

and let yourself free.

after days if have chances can meet again.

should not wait or keep in touch

Oops i did it again!

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