To her, you are an ATM.

I don't think anyone can tell you what you don't already know...you summed it up quite nicely.

You know the price of admission and that seems to be the going rate. Is it worth it? Only you can answer that.

Sometimes it's cheaper to rent than to own...

broke up with her.
I hate those woman.
thank god I am not one of those.
I am sure she likes you but I don't think as much as she loves money.

everyone has neeeds ,sometimes pretty gals have a bigger eyes on the cloth or jewlry ,blabla stuff than theirself .(actually its not wrong because everyone loves beautiful things) so if you could not afford it ,just let her go or yourself..because she maybe compmise one or two times but third .no way!!! so make it shorter ! just talk to her and break up clean..

you met your gf at mix?!!?! try vics!!! haha.. its right across the street =)

but on a more serious note, everyone is materialistic to a certain extent. its not all that bad bro, her looks make up for it!!!

This is a tough concept for some girls to understand but sit her down and have a serious talk with her about how the real world works, you need to balance your spending with your income and you also want to save a little money every month. She might not know or take this very seriously but she kinda has to,, its part of growing up and you are not doing her any favors by giving in to her all the time. I was in a 4 year relationship with a Chinese gal and she was a bit like that in the beginning but she gradually came around to realise that it IS possible to survive without 30 pairs of shoes, 20 handbags and 50 different scarfs. And after a couple of serious conversations about the subject of money she even made household budgets (presumably to figure out exactly how much she could spend hehe) but it was all good. I would be vary of a girl who wasn't able to be reasonable in these areas. If it really means this much to her you can rest assured she will keep asking for more and more,, either she realises she is not 18 and living with her parents anymore or she probably needs to go.

dump her fast. find another. if she comes back, tell her what's what.

be a man, you know what's right. don't let a girl tell you what to do. i divorced my wife because she wanted control of the money. F-that.

word.

This quote and in your last post, the issue, that "everybody is looking to her, when you are in the mall". This is quite a little bit strange..........to me. First of all, to find somebody, will be in the first two seconds guided by the eyes, but for a long term relationship this guides should be changed to internal values. If not, then you are not in love with her, only with her beauty and your statement:"...living together until the end of my live should be revised to:...until the end of her beauty"!

My two cents, check yourself and the feelings to her, if you are okay, then discuss with her (on a good day) this issue. That you have limited funds and of course, beautiful clothes is okay, but not every months and blablablabla.

If she is having also some feelings to you, she will understand and try to make something good out of this, if not, say good-bye to her.

I reckon someone - admin? - makes up all these threads just to keep this forum alive. There just can't be THAT many mugs like samboy out there, and even fewer who would tell people about it on a forum. Esp as money-loving scavenging Chinese girls are the biggest cliches of all times. Every week there's a supposed newbee going "my gf wants me to give all my money to her family", "i want to break up with my gf but she's blackmailing me", "i pay for all our bills, help!"

Samboy, come clean. You're not serious are you?

What an old story
You didnt ask her what she took you for that night in Mix?
In spire your imagination and try a girl less pretty and not comfortable hanging in bars next time

why should your pet pay for her own food????

Dump her and find a foreign girlfriend. I've been in China long enough to known that 90% of Chinese girls ARE superficial, materialistic and controlling. Unfortunately it's just part of the culture at this point in time (I don't care how unPC it is). If that is your thing, knock yourself out. If not, grow a set, stop bitching, tell her to go find a sugar Daddy, and move on.

Not just me, also friends with girlfriends. The truth hurts, get over it.

LOL I just saw this ad again:

She isn't materialistic, just f-ing nuts. I hope she doesn't represent the last 10%

No really, of the girls Ive personally met here in China none of them has been neither golddiggers nor nuts. Strangely enough, since it seems from posts in this forum I should be knee-deep in atleast the former, as I look very laowai, usually wear a s***load of gold and prefer quality clothes. And I even attend a university where ya'll say everybody is a ho on the prowl!

Bonus trivia from the world of weird but nice surprises: A large percentage of girls Ive talked with in China likes Jane Austen books. Hmm. Ofcourse thats great and should be encouraged, so today I went and bought Jane Austen The Complete Works for my landlord's young daughter. Just doing my bit to prevent her ending in those grim statistics of golddiggers and nutcases.

Didn't know that was an old saying... But I'm nice, so here's a free English lesson. We have a phrase in English which is a little more poetic "Birds of a feather flock together" or in this case "Hoes in the jing flock to bling" You're welcome.

don't cheat yourself any more.in beijing you don't have a opportunity to know a gf who is from the same country with you

bj girls are hard to find rich bf who is chinese guy also.

so you chosed her for your need and she did a same job.

do you want to marry her? no! right?

there are 18 million people in beijing.half of them are women(9 million)
and 1/9 of women are youth(1 million)
and 5% of youth are pretty girls(500,000)
and 1% of pretty girls have the same idear with your gf(5,000)
and the improtant thing is most of them are crazy about nightlife.

so if you are available,stay in a bar with dressing up and say someting to girls. you can find a gf very soon.

good luck