Beating Women
Yesterday, I saw a dude beating a woman inside a local mall. There were dozens of people in the hall watching and doing absolutely nothing. I felt quite bad as I yelled at the guy and was quickly hushed by a colleague. "It's private matter." He explained that I most likely be the one hauled off to jail if I got involved. I did manage to inform a young security guy at the other end of the hall. Sad to say it took the mall security guys ten minutes to get there and made the guy leave. I really wanted to deck this guy.
My girlfriend saw something similar at the bus stop near our home. Again dozens of people watch and do nothing as this idiot beat this girl to the ground. Only after the guy ran off did several women go over to help the girl. The men did nothing.
It is funny, the same guys that would not lift a finger to keep these dudes from beating much smaller and weaker women, are the same guys that think nothing of elbowing you in the nose to get to an open seat on the bus or train.
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stcroix2bj
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New in town?
gfreeh (not verified)
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One of the many reasons I hold Chinese men in very low regard...
Absolutely pathetic.
jensun5
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Well you are no better than them...you did the same thing...NOTHING! Did you stay and watch the entire show?
You let the crowd influence your better judgement.
It reminds me for some reason of a taxi ride the other day. As I went to buckle my seatbelt, the driver told me not to. I sat for a second thinking OK...but then I was like why am I listening to this taxi driver about my life and safety as if he is some kind of spectacular driver who could never get into an accident.
I'm not sure why he did that...there was a sticker to tell me to buckle and a recording stating the same. He had his seatbelt on.
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longdongsilver
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Not worth it to get involved.
Let the -s kill each other.
When I was new in China I intervened in a few "man beats girl" situations, only once was the girl grateful, and she had blood gushing out of her mouth and nose.
The rest of the time, the girl will most likely turn on you and the nong and her will call the police together.
You'll waste hours of your life sorting it out in the police station.
I know it sucks, but it's not our problem.
ESG
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I think getting security is a good call and the best you can do in China. I agree on the fact that most women who get beating by their dudes (not only Chinese, it's a common phenomenon all around the world) turn on their helpers. If he does it in public, he's done it before in private, which means she's used to it and chose to be with him.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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jensun5
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Thats right ESG...those crazy women want it...they probably even ask for it. They like being humiliated and beat on especially in public...I'm sure they are used to it as you say.
Right again you idiot...yes that is a proven fact...I'm glad you brought that to our attention again. Get a clue fcuktard.
And just because the girl doesn't act like it, dong, doesn't mean she isn't grateful. Maybe she needs to save face or maybe she is scared.
Maybe someday you will have the unpleasant experience of being sodomized over and over again. I bet after a while you would just get used to it...don't you think?
And where do you guys draw the line...what if it was a 13yr old girl getting beat? When does it become OK to see and to watch it without doing anything?
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ESG
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That's not what I said, and if you could read you wouldn't be such a f-ing idiot reacting like that.
I'm a woman myself and I'm not saying they are asking for it, but if a dudes decides to beat his gf in public I seriously think that he did it before and if she stays with him it's not her fault to get beaten up again, but I sure as hell think that she's a stupid c**t who doesn't respect herself.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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longdongsilver
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I look after my own.
If someone asks me for help, that's a different story.
jensun5
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Well..I can read thank you. And I'm not sure which part you didn't say. Anyway...what you said now hardly even makes sense.
So if a girl gets beat up and stays with the guy and gets beat up again...then it's not her fault. So you don't blame her at all but yet you say she is stupid and has no respect for herself. But it's not her fault...right? You completely blame it on her and her lack of respect...say nothing about him...you must be American?
So do you think Nicole Simpson was a stupid c**t who didn't respect herself?
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qq1091504832
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Yeah I think if a guy is hitting his gf in public it probably isnt the first time. My friends mum got beaten by his dad for years but she never left him. I think deep down maybe these girls love their bfs/husbands and hope one day he will change. Which of course he never will. Anyway so if you come steaming in and kick the living sh*t out of him she will probably turn on you for beating the man she loves. Love is hardly logical if ever.
jensun5
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I agree qq...but I think women don't leave for other reasons such as financial or after getting beat for so long, they don't think they deserve any better or whatever.
I would just like to see someone punch one of these guys in the face and knock him out in public and then just leave. No police involvement necessary. That would be classic.
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ESG
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No I'm not American. I never said it was her fault that she gets beaten, but she sure as hell doesn't change her situation by staying with somebody who already laid hand on her, does she now? And keeping yourself in a situation like that is plain stupid. I don't even have words for guys who beat women.
So what do you think, that the woman is really smart and respects herself very much staying with somebody who doesn't respect her enough not to hit her? You honestly think that's smart behaviour?
Well Nicole Simpson did get divorced, didn't she. So she doesn't fall under that category.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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ESG
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I agree on that. Unfortunately it will never happen.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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cannonw1
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i was checking out this post and it made me want to do some research on "defense of others" law. i know versions of this exists in sweden, the uk, the u.s. and australia, but found nothing in terms of china. i know they have self defense laws in china, but does anyone here know if china has such laws "defense of others" laws in place?
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jensun5
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Of course I don't think it is smart behavior to stay in a relationship like that ESG. But I also think that very smart respectful women sometimes get into situations which spin out of control and they end of losing their self respect and dignity to the point where they think they have no choices.
Just because Nicole eventually got divorced...she was in an abusive relationship for a long time...so I think she does fall into that category. And she was beautiful, rich, had a great family it seemed...so was she an idiot c**t?
I stand corrected...you are from New Zealand or England?
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ESG
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Yes, I guess you are right about the spinning out of control thing and losing your self respect and dignity. Well, even if she was rich and beautiful doesn't mean that she had a lot of respect for herself, and to be honest, I don't know what is going on in women's heads who stay in situations like that and hopefully I never will. I just know that thanks to my education and being brought up to never ever take sh*t from anybody, I will be smart enough to get out of a situation like that asap, aka after the first hit.
Nope, I'm not from New Zealand or England either, I'm not an Aussie or Canadian or any other English speaking country.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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longdongsilver
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First of all, it's not an easy thing to knock someone out. A lot harder than you might thing.
Secondly, if you did hit the guy, this is what would most likely happen: The girl would turn on you, screaming, she'd enlist the help of other Chinese people in the area to subdue you, while calling the cops.
You'd either have to fight a crowd or run.
Chinese people stick together, and they always gang up on foreigners in violent situations, no matter who is at fault.
So go ahead, tough guy, give it a go. See if it doesn't cause you a lot of trouble. You'll want to hit the woman yourself by the time you're through.
admin
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people, people, people! It's the Web 2.0 era! Film that sh*t with your phone and post it to Youtube.
At least the person might be shamed into reforming his behavior.
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HarryC
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I was new in town once.
BTW, I know what ESG is talking about. Commonly with domestics the waring parties will use the intervener as their scapegoat so they can kiss and make up and pretend it was never about them. The fact that they are engaging in such behaviour in public is a good sign they are lacking emotional maturity. I don't believe it's so hard for a girl to distance herself from a violent male if that's really what she wants.
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the_remedy (not verified)
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LEave them alone, man. These people are disgusting savages. You can't train a dog to eat with a knife and fork. And if you did, would you really want a dog at the dinner table with you?
The only people a Chinese man is capable of beating up are Chinese women and children. I'd much prefer they beat the women than the children. Next time you are at a bar, beat up a Chinese guy, just to keep society's yin and yang in balance.
ESG
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yeah and then get kicked out of the country for it. very smart thing to do.
"beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average"
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the_remedy (not verified)
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I've never been kicked out of the country for it.
cyrusbobo
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sh*t you, when you country is full of divorce couple, you are blaming chinese for beating women and children, beating women only happen in rare place, beating children is helping them learn a lesson, chinese is much more experience in educating a disciplined and filial and good mannered child.
the parent's love for child is very real
eselaypee
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yes . westeners have pensions. chinese people have children.
the horror, the pain, and the alphabet
the_remedy (not verified)
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Wow, so beating women is not as bad as divorce?
Beating women and children is disgusting, and your culture is dusgusting because it allows this. And you are disgusting becaus eyou defend it.
burntbread
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Man, I've seen some classic fights here.
! Old Man vs Old Woman (looked like he'd tried to steal her handbag. wrestling on the floor, both must have been 60+).
! Shoplifer vs shoppers and stall holders.
! police vs handcuffed man (nasty).
! Chinese football team vs one Japanese guy.(nasty)
! and my favourite: 'People's Justice'.
About 25 people in a circle all taking potshots at one unlucky individual in the middle. One old dear booted him clean in the bollocks. That was in Mongolia though.
The cyber stalker; having very poor social skills so that they may have a limited number or no friends, knowing no life outside of the Internet due to insecurities that make them fear the real world...
ouch!
cyrusbobo
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you shitting me, beating women does not happen in your country, then i guess you must be a nice person, and viewing others as yourself.lol. if you say so, i tell you beating women happen very rare, usually they beat each other, and for some serious reason
When abusing childern happen in many country, chinese beating children for his good,
the difference between abusing and beating is, abusing come for no reason, beating come for reason.
JD
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i actually knew a chinese guy was put in jail for helping in a situation like this.
he was walking home one day. it was around 10pm, he saw a guy beating his girlfriend, so he went and punched the guy in the face, they started a fight, he ended up breaking one of the guy's arms. later, the loser sued him and the police arrested him and he was in prison for a year.
a big part of the reason this guy who helped lost the case was because the guy's girl friend was on her boyfriend's side. after all, she was the only witness.
ChinaBoy
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I take pictures of Chinese people doing things and send them to my friends. They're hilarious (the pictures, not the *bleeps*)
jensun5
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I guess that says it all....look at cyrus and the Chinese mentality...there is no hope.
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