Advice on Traditional/Conservative Chinese Girls
I just met this girl at an English Corner, she's really pretty and has a great personality. I asked her for her number and after talking on the phone with her, I realized that she's pretty traditional and conservative (i.e. she's not the clubbing/KTV/bar type, she prefers staying home and reading). She wants to take things slow and be friends first.
I'm not too experienced with traditional/conservative Chinese girls, so I wanted to ask for some advice on here on how to pursue her. I'd love to be romantic with her (i.e. holding hands, hugging, holding each other, kissing, etc), but I'm afraid she'll get scared away because I'm too "Western".
Any thoughts?




YunRui
Re: Advice on Traditional/Conservative Chinese Girls
Yep...follow her advice.
...unless you want to move "things" along faster. In that case, find a "fast" girl who matches your speed. 
Stay Hungry!
Pain is a requirement, not a curse
mschlee
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Hope you like pulling on it.
bobby_liu
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she is mine!!
bbmay
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If she would like to take things slow,better to follow her.Give her some suprise and be more patient
YJC (not verified)
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Jamie Shorter 39
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My thoughts?
You haven't been in China very long.
Traditional girls, just words, they don't exist.
Kiss her passionately for a few minutes, rip open her top, throw her on the bed doggy style then f*** her ass.
Afterwards, tell her she was lucky you didn't take her virginity (THIS TIME) as it would have hurt wayyy more.
Chinese girls are the most manipulative actresses of them all.
Treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore.
Did that help?
bobby_liu
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jas5sk
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f-ing christ! Someone should slap the sh*t out of you... for f***s sake!
You met this girl at English Corner (she needs the english practice) and "gave "you her phone number. Do you think this was all fate, or coincidence, or do you just not have enough common sense to see a clearly thought-out and well excecuted plan.
Ofcourse, she wants you to be friends, anything more serious than that would make her look a bit whorish (if she's even the least bit interested in anything besides english learning) in your eyes?
You want to hold hands, then take her hand into yours. You want to hug then just hug her!
How long have you been in China?
I know nothing about you, but I'll take the "under" on any bet that says you'll be married to her in three years.
Bench 400 or die trying.
eselaypee
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ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ah ah aha aha ha
you mean too horny, not 'western'
just dont do it. she will have those nuts of yours kept on ice in her freezer in a hello kitty tupper ware tub.
can you say pussywhipped?
the horror, the pain, and the alphabet
Jamie Shorter 39
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Asian Information Directory Service?
andyandyandy
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My question is, do Laowai's really cruise around English Korner to teach english? I always thought it was a general understanding that its a total meat market.
Prince of Darkness
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Oh man trust me if a girl says she wants to take things slow,move the f*** on,you are going to wait what, two years before you have sex with her? I think she tried to tell you indirectly that she doesn't want to be more than just friends.A chick is like a bus,if you miss the first one you can always get the next one!she probably just wants to USE you for English and then tell you to f*** off!Be bold, women like confidence in a man.Tell her you would love to make love to her and that you promise you will be gentle.
"I will always be there for you,by your side,like a shadow,your moon and stars to light your way, and when darkness comes I will be ever brighter and reflect my power and manifest myself to you"-B.C.R.R.(2009- )
liyaha
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dont steal our women
save the earth!!! spread love not hatred.
wefrucar
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It's not stealing given that she's not your property.... fyi.
Sometimes I feel it is maybe unbearable always be traditional Chinese girl.
mgarcia406
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Roofies bro.
crossstitch
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You sound like a real keeper.. now scurry back to that hole you crawled out of... go on now.
Jamie Shorter 39
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Gotta love the newbie chicks.
Jamie Shorter 39
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Tell me little girl/boy.
Have you even been f***ed up the ass? I mean by a real penis?
Are you even qualified to comment here?
Forgive me admin, I am looking for new foes,hoes, all my hoes, foes got banned, by you, hahaha!!!
crossstitch
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What makes you think that vermin like you can talk about woman like that on a public forum. keep your nasty, vulgur words to yourself and don't spew anymore out of that diseased mouth.
schlepping
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Dear Mayren1234:
What I gather from watching hours upon hours of asian porn is that asian women like to be raped.
Protest is just foreplay.
Traditional,conservative, openminded, easygoing they all enjoy a good raping.
Additionally they enjoy things being put in their asses.
Also, I like the name May.
If I have a baby girl I will name her MayMay.
If it is a boy it will be Kfir. Which is hebrew for lion but also a south african racial slur.
Please don't steal my future baby names.
Praise Jesus
Watson
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Ah Jesus she's back B)
Jamie Shorter 39
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I wonder how many foreigners have actually been convicted of rape in China? I mean of a Chinese girl.
Be an interesting statistic.
otto
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there's something not quite right about you asking that
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
villageidiot
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better than one; it's a meat market where sexpats get paid to screw around with their "students"
US&A =/= amerikkka
schlepping
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In 2007, 34 foreign men were convicted of raping chinese women.
Praise Jesus
villageidiot
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those frisky koreans!
US&A =/= amerikkka
Prince of Darkness
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Then when you dump a Chinese girl she will call you and say "f*** you" this was the same "nice" girl who used to say "I love you" what, you think I was gonna marry your ass???
"I will always be there for you,by your side,like a shadow,your moon and stars to light your way, and when darkness comes I will be ever brighter and reflect my power and manifest myself to you"-B.C.R.R.(2009- )
bbmay
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So,u guys just stand behind ur masks and make dirty jokes or comdemning the Chinese(e.p the girls).
Is it that funny?
ke pa de laowai
Prince of Darkness
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bbmay, THE TRUTH HURTS!! If you girls were not so easy then we maybe would treat you with more respect,if you stopped lying that you are traditional and all the other lies,and then throwing yourselves to any laowai man in China then maybe,just maybe we would respect you!!!!
"I will always be there for you,by your side,like a shadow,your moon and stars to light your way, and when darkness comes I will be ever brighter and reflect my power and manifest myself to you"-B.C.R.R.(2009- )
otto
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seriously
you guys are pretty mean.
why can't you be kind and sensitive like me, you pieces of sh*t
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."