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Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

Just read this tragic story.

Be wary, kids.

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Virginia said (March 7, 2010):

My ex-husband was in charge of the Asian Market for many years before we relocated to America from Switzerland. With the reunification of Hong Kong, he went back to China (business travel at the beginning) to consolidate offices from Hong Kong, Beijing and Shanghai into one big office in Shanghai.

Soon after he began having an affair with his secretary and that was the end of our marriage in 2002 (legal separation through the court until 06, when we finally got the divorce)

She quit working and he financially supported her, and her entire family (sister, husband, mother and father).

My boys had visitation with them, for which I would fly over to China and spend a week in a hotel while they spent time with their father. I went a few times out to dinner with her, allowed her to stay at my home once during a child visitation.. I really did not hold a grudge as the loss was his, not mine and besides I had met him in high school, so as much as you try to hate someone, it is hard to do when you have spent most of your life with that person and he fathered your two most beautiful gifts in life.

He did not want to get married for all this time as he knew what she really was after, but in August of 08 he caved in and married her. In November 22nd of 09 I got a phone call that he was hospitalized with a brain hemorrhage.

I went to the Chinese consulate the next day and got humanitarian visas to fly that night and visit him: he had a fractured skull (open compound) and he was in a coma. How did it happen? we have heard 4 different stories, however we were the ones organizing repatriation with an air ambulance back to Europe (which she refused once we left), medical bills, etc.

On December 7th he passed... again, we organized repatriation of the body, funeral in Europe with his mother and sister...

We found out she had signed a refusal of no medical treatment or care the first 12 hours he was in the hospital brought in by a friend, claiming he was just drunk. She says he fell in the bathroom, but anyone in forensics knows that for such fracture, it requires at least 600 lbs of pressure...which sitting on a toilet won't do such job... we are still trying to investigate, but in order to get all medical records we require her signature (Chinese hospital regulations) and of course, she won't sign for it.

To this day we have not received a death certificate, as it requires her consent, but we have received her hate e-mails as she found out she was not married long enough to receive a pension from the Swiss government ( he worked for a Swiss company all his life), she is now claiming the boys are not his boys and that I should be grateful she allowed him to be"generous" to me and give me money for the boys (read: court enforced child support).

She owns two flats paid by my ex-husband in Shanghai (next to each other, one for her mother and one where they lived), emptied his bank account 3 days before his death, she is now after my children's inheritance and it seems she might get away with murder, unless by the grace of God, the Austrian government listens to our leads to open an investigation on this case (He was an Austrian citizen).

So, for David, I have also encountered educated, wonderful Chinese people; some of them were my professors at school while studying medicine and it is not to say they are all the same, but I would kindly ask David to go to Shanghai or Hong Kong (where I lived for a few years) and really open his eyes as to what happens to some foreign people out there... it is shocking.

Maybe one day we will bring justice to the death of my children's father, however this is one of hundreds of cases out there that have not been looked into by any authorities and leave people like my children traumatized.


Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

Good Luck to Sam Angel

No words are racist. Actions are racist.
Say what you need to explain yourself.
If you are not racist it will shine through.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

Beware that sweet smile of a Chinese girl,later it will turn into a snarl.

Satisfaction is the death of desire

I never ask people for ANYTHING because they always have NOTHING worth asking for.

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"do not despise the snake for having no horns, for who is to say she will not become a dragon?"

Im a f-ing Idiot.

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haha, thanks for the cautionary words of wisdom kids!

i'll be on the lookout for snakes and dragons and horns and snarls.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

All Chinese girls are different, I myself are proof of it. Everywhere in the world these stories can happen

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juliechen wrote:
All Chinese girls are different, I myself are proof of it. Everywhere in the world these stories can happen

yeah, you're right. it doesn't mean anything.

also, he was 'asking for trouble'.

he was married himself and having an affair with a married woman.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

pi wrote:
juliechen wrote:
All Chinese girls are different, I myself are proof of it. Everywhere in the world these stories can happen

yeah, you're right. it doesn't mean anything.

also, he was 'asking for trouble'.

he was married himself and having an affair with a married woman.

Ah??? I thought the story was about a western woman and her Chinese husband...He dumped her for a Chinese chick who took all his money after his death....

Too long to read, pi~~~

No words are racist. Actions are racist.
Say what you need to explain yourself.
If you are not racist it will shine through.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

Let me see if I can summarize it from memory.

He was a western guy who came to china.

He had a wife back home, but he started f-ing his secretary, who was also married.

He bought her lots of goodies (including 2 apartments) and eventually married her.

Then, a year later he was found dead. She probably hired some thugs to kill him to get his inheritance/pension or something.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

pi wrote:
Let me see if I can summarize it from memory.

He was a western guy who came to china.

He had a wife back home, but he started f-ing his secretary, who was also married.

He bought her lots of goodies (including 2 apartments) and eventually married her.

Then, a year later he was found dead. She probably hired some thugs to kill him to get his inheritance/pension or something.

lol....Is he a brother of paul McCartney? Hopefully his secretary has 2 legs...

Yep, the Chinese woman is a cheating ho and the western man is a stupid as...

No words are racist. Actions are racist.
Say what you need to explain yourself.
If you are not racist it will shine through.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

Yea, sucks for him.

But let's not get carried away with this. No need to read this story and go "omg chinese women are evil, this could happen to any of us!!"

This guy was a moron.
And there are gold diggers all over the world.

It takes an awful lot of gullibility and unawareness to get involved in this situation.

But anyway.... RIP.... may justice be done....

Sometimes I feel it is maybe unbearable always be traditional Chinese girl.

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Have already reached this age, it is difficult to find a suitable man, we can say a good man, a man in general and even bad men In someone's home. Is likely to obtain other age find a much larger, and yet did not want to wait on him. Even after the divorce choose celibacy,Max 97 perhaps they thought it was happy to find a more suitable way of life, can be around people would think that no matter how successful they are worthy of pity the losers, or even to the assumption of their personality, or whether there are problems is the charm is not enough. When the onlookers to "spectators" of the posture, easier said than done to Coushang 1: "from the bar!" Who can understand them, such as fish and drinking water Lengnuanzizhi it? Love and Marriage in the Chinese-style, women are always family-centered, there is fixed to take care of the object - the child. "Small flat", the wife, daughter Ting-Ting Sung devoted effort every day to send then, almost occupied most of her life. She could not help but to a close friend of General Sun Li feelings: "There is you I am a woman thinks more oxen, and men are crazy, I took him to pack a decent, he went out scenery, another woman saw him, there are manners and warm Immediately a heat, which want to get behind a woman overworked. "" a woman to do is to get a good points of their own, eat well, drink well, play well, case one is not careful out of an accident, another woman will use us. Province Under the money, living room us accumulated sleep us save with a husband, a baby playing us pained. "Once the divorce, the children had no father,basketball shoes no complete home. Why not divorce? Women own a lot of hardship and plans. For the overall situation, they chose the small my "tolerance." Such a woman can stick to how long? They do not know. Does not fit, fear of regret at the embarrassment of those women stuck in the middle hovering hesitation. Love and Marriage in the Chinese style, from or be separated is a question of fate, are Sixin pain. They do not know, no matter what choice, adhere to Ye Hao, Ye Hao divorce, remarriage Ye Hao, Ye Hao celibacy, they will have a sense of loss and regret.

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

I do not think anyone should take this too seriously. It is from a website that has as its slogan "exposing feminism and the new world order."

Also, notice how no last names were used in the story? That seems odd if they are trying to get pressure on some government to act.

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OMG!!! Timeout Is this a classic example of a Google translation? Not sure if that post by Yasmine would even make sense in Chinese Silly

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Yun Rui,
You actually read her post? My eyes got dizzy. Can you break it down for us in a couple of sentences please.

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BeijingDays wrote:
Yun Rui,
You actually read her post? My eyes got dizzy. Can you break it down for us in a couple of sentences please.

Sorry...I already have a headache. Wink

Stay Hungry!

De Oppresso Liber

Pain is a requirement, not a curse

Re: Marriage with Chinese woman ends in tragedy

I think the article best summarized in this key sentence:

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This woman wants is a mutual support toward the cemetery people, but now complain of gas and she could only tolerate, and overtaken by a stomach of grievances, tears, and the phrase "to teach her husband to seek regret Monkey."

And after all.... don't we ALL seek regret Monkey?

Sometimes I feel it is maybe unbearable always be traditional Chinese girl.

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Its like looking for a noodle in a haystack, the question is, why look in the first place?

Hypnotized

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When he attracted by her young appearance.

When he always forgot feeling the inside of a woman.

When wife be too careless for her husband.

No good to me, no close to me.

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I am not surprised this Virginia lost her man. Bet she can talk longgggggg than she wrote.

不怕神一样的敌人 就怕猪一样的队友

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I really did not hold a grudge as the loss was his, not mine and besides I had met him in high school, so as much as you try to hate someone, it is hard to do when you have spent most of your life with that person and he fathered your two most beautiful gifts in life.

Are you kidding me?? The loss was his??? She would be the first woman in history to not hold any bad feelings after another woman steals your man and you go out for lunch with them pretending "the loss is his"..classic denial... garbage story..

STFU already...

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