I think I might be a very bad lay and dreadful boring, he's never said that and made me feel in that way. But what I hear from others are like what you guys said. I don't talk to him about this coz I don't want him to think I am a girl who just wants to control the man, I am actually not. But whenever my relationship comes to a certain period, I will have a hard time like this by others' talking and self thinking.

I actually want to do some cleaning, read sth and watch the movies I have downloaded at the weekend, but I am just used to see him at weekend all the time. I know that bad feelings when you want to see somebody but he or she is not available, so I seldom refuse him when he asks me out. My job is about planning and being organised all the time, so it is indeed nice to leave everything away just let another person lead you to do anything sometimes. My boyfriend is actually a very sweet guy, he is much much better than all my ex-boyfriends. But according to my experience, guys do sh*t when they are sure this girl won't leave him easily, I am just afraid that will happen again.

If it is just a lay, probably it will be much more simple. It is not nice to be considered as a lay, but you consider the other one a lay whatever. Not too much care, not too much worries.

As I think, girls are much different than guys. As a guy, they seldom come out like" you are just a bitch like my ex-gf", but for a girl, it is easily to come out" you are all the same, bastards".

I don't watch what I talk with my boyfriend, but I am actually afraid that if I say sth, it will get him stuck when he wants to do sth. Like the gym thing, I am actually afraid that he can't enjoy it as much as he did since I have funny feelings about it. I can't only ask what I want all the time since I don't think he only cares about what he wants. Anyways, putting in the forum is just for fun, to see ppl giving different answers is definitely an interesting thing.

hmmmm, since I have asked loads of guys to marry me, nobody takes it serious now...

hmm, yeah, reli, i dont think muscles are so important.

but my bf is there to do martial arts, its good for me actually since i dont need to get beaten by him

wefrucar, you are a man of wisdom

yeah, it is indeed weird for us sometimes since we are only at the beginning. he farts and burps all the time in front of me and never cared to pretend to be handsome for me!!!

if he was chinese, at least i could expect multiple presents.

ah, how could you know????? eh!!!!