but let us be adults, does love really happens so frequently?

Alishan, I am going to be 23 this October.

Those threatenings of suicide, accusations of rape and constant emails and phone calls are not just something that Chinese girls do

I don't think foreigners are a-holes, people shouldn't be categorised as a-holes just by being foreigners......

Do you think in the slightest you might be a racist, Aier2?

TheIncredibleEgg wrote:

Any woman who picks a man based on nationality or race, is too confused/unattuned to even know what falling in love is. I've heard girls here say they're "in love" with a guy from a foreign country (funny how they have mention where he's from). The way they say it and how they talk about it, just doesn't make any sense.

I'm generally suspicious about Chinese girls targetting foreign men, or me.

How can you tell which Chinese girl is the targetting-foreign-men kind, which is not?

As the title reads, I don't know why foreigners think that Chinese girls just fall in love so easily and quickly?

here is my experience, just recently, I fell apart with a Finnish guy, I was really surprised that I got over him in only two days, and during those two days when I felt bad about the closure(we were not doing a relationship, we were just seeing each other.), I was only concerned that now I have to be alone again, I didn't think the slightest of him, because he could have been anyone, and I could have felt bad because of anyone who fell apart with me.

The thing is I got the feeling that he may think I was in love with him, and it is insulting. It took me only two days to get over him, I mean to put those time I spent with him behind me, How could he be so navie to think I even had feelings for him?

My case is not the only one. I have heard many foreigners tell me that they met Chinese girls and had them fall in love and get devastated after the breakups. Honestly I don't believe it.

I know myself can be flirtatious, provocative and dramatic when I feel like it. Maybe sometimes I send wrong signals and mislead guys to think that I was holding strong feelings for them, but let us be adults, does love really happens so frequently?

I do remember that the Finnish guy told me he had had his two previous chinese girlfriends fall in love with him(now probably he thinks I fell for him too), but is that logically scientifically possible? I mean those girls they had had boyfriends before him, how can those girls fall in love as soon as they meet someone? even if they are Chinese girls. I highly doubt it.

I would really appreciate if some foreigners can share more of your experiences, and shed some light on my puzzle that is that really true Chinese girls fall in love frequently or am I just a numb heartless exception?