the war between my english teacher and I
My company hires an English teacher to teach us English. At beginning I got along with him. But after a few months, we began to fight. Both we are very angry at and rude to each other. Sometimes I really want to yell at him because his rudeness but untill now I did not find proper time and proper place to do that. Besides, I think I will lose my grace if I lost my temper in front of people. So I am coming here to complain about him. And below are how our fights:
his rudeness 1:
When my colleague and I entered the room to attend his class, he was talking with a girl. He did not say hi to us or looked at us. He continued to talk only to the girl leaving us sitting beside along for a long time. My colleague and I felt very boring, so I wrote: the teacher takes us as we were the air. My colleague replied: I take him as air too. And then we began to laugh. Later he asked us which job do I think will be disappeared after 50 years. I thought it was the good time to take revenge, so I said “English teacher” . Then he asked us what will happen on us in 10 years. I said maybe you have already gone back to your own country maybe you have got married to your girlfriend. He said perhaps he is still in china and still single and only some Chinese traditional religion person will get married. His tone was ironical because I am a tradition religion Chinese people. We were both unhappy when the class was over.
His rudeness2:
He explained the word “beneficial” to us. I asked him if he think it is beneficial to drink too much soft drink?( cola is his only drink). He replied me very rudely: because I like it, I am not expecting myself to live for 200 years. I was very angry too and said we can not always do the things we like to do because some things are harmful. He said he did not care. I said you should love yourself more. We were both unhappy and then he began to explain the word” anti social”. He said when he was in the college, some immigrate students were anti-social because then he was trying to talk with them, they shed away. Then I said maybe they do not like you. He was very angry and asked me if I do not like a person, will you shed away. I said I will still smile at them for politeness. He said I am a liar. We argued for a while and ended unhappily.
His rudeness 3:
He told us Germany has the best chocolate so he always asked his gf’s mother mail some to them. I said you had better not eat too much, you are already overweight. He was very angry and said he wanted to gain some weight. I asked him why. He said he wanted it no reason very rudely.
His rudeness 4:
He told us the class schedule would be changed since next week. After the class was over, I asked him why he wanted to change the schedule. He answered me very rudely saying because he has other things to do on these days. This is his way.
His rudeness 5:
He often asks other students to answer his question. I am always the last student he asks questions. So one day, I was thinking about take revenge. When he explain the word” revolution” and asked one student what people were like 8000 years ago. The student said monkey. Then I said Chinese people revolved much better than you did. He asked why. Then I said because you people are very hairy. His face turned to be red and said you should think it over before your speak. I said what I said is what I am thinking about. I only spoke out my mind. I said something but I did not remember it but I knew he was in rage. So I said never mind, I am only practicing English. When the class was ended we both were very sad.
His rudeness 6:
He asked us to finish a sentence: if you get married, you could ------“ so I said you get married, you could live with your gf legally. He said in some country it is legal. He said marriage is only a piece a paper. I said if my church knows people live together before they get married, they will pray for them. He said he did not mind and let them pray for me because I am such a person very rudely.
His rudeness 7:
I send many nice music, jokes, funny picture to my colleagues every week. I sent them to him too because I added him in my email list at beginning when we did not fight. One day, when there was nobody around, I asked him if he received my email. He said he never read it and deleted them once he got it because they are not important and has nothing to do with his work. i Spend 10 minutes to calm down . 10 minutes later, I told myself the purpose I was coming to the class was to practice English and if I kept quiet, I am wasting my time. I managed to let myself recovered from the negative feeling and began to talk as usual. Later he taught us a word” tough”. So I asked him did he ever meet some students who are very tough. He answered yes he met one. I asked why do u think he is tough? He said she kept disturb the class by interrupt his talk. I said you should talk to her or remind her because she may think it is ok to interrupt you because it is language class. Some students are encouraged to speak as much as possible. He said when people are talking, she laughs. I guess he was talking about me. i have to admit sometimes I did cut in his talking because I think he does not give us much time to practice speaking English. I think if he does not like my way, he should talk to me what he is thinking about but he did not.
This is my complaints. After I finished my words, I promise myself I will forget all his rudeness and show my respect him again because anyway he is my teacher. There is a saying in china: one day teacher, lifelong father. My parents are both teachers, so I will forgive him because to err is human, forgive, divine. It must feel great to be a divine.
Over.
Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are your own fears




wefrucar
Re: the war between my english teacher and I
Don't really feel like reading the whole thing, but it sounds like you're the one who keeps insulting him for no reason.
Doesn't really surprise me that he wouldn't like you.
Sometimes I feel it is maybe unbearable always be traditional Chinese girl.
otto
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I know what the problem is, little princess.
you're a total bitch
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
Count_zero
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And then we began to laugh. Later he asked us which job do I think will be disappeared after 50 years. I thought it was the good time to take revenge, so I said “English teacher” .
He told us Germany has the best chocolate so he always asked his gf’s mother mail some to them. I said you had better not eat too much, you are already overweight. He was very angry
otto
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what a rotten little tart
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
jericko
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alishan
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My God, let it out!!!!! Run around naked and screaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think you will feel a different person after that.
You live you learn.
SXD
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Just get a room and be done with it, will you.
herojuana
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You're a snotty, racist bitch. That's the problem.
I hope you get kicked in the c**t.
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jericko
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one thing clear: you can forget about good english with this attitude for the rest of your life.
samanthawang
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I know this is out of character and it is "rudely: but I f-ing hate you.
chaofan
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I think this is a guy from what was said in start of his post, about talking to girls and ignoring him.
Why don't you just find another teacher?
As for your little joke about English teachers going away in 10 years I don't see it happening after reading your poor English writing skills, for your sake you better hope there are plenty of English teachers around long into the future!
KZ
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I know many English teach are not smart, adorable folks, really.
But look, op, I am sorry for the man who is teaching you English.
This lad is putting up with a human crap like you for couples of ten kuai, it is sad.
You know what pisses me off more? You even sincerely feel righteous about yourself. If you are a troll, you succeed now.
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vividFish
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Lovely.
Did you ever try to use sticks to beat each other?
herojuana
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I taught coporate English from time to time in 2002-2004, and I can tell you that there is one like this in nearly every class.
The spoiled bitch (unfortunately it's nearly always a woman) who wants to be treated like she's special, and when she's not she becomes problematic in class.
She thinks her English is much better than it is, and will frequently interrupt the teacher and her classmates when they are speaking.
She will be dissatisfied with everything and might even complain to the boss for no reason other than she has formed a personal grudge against someone who is just doing their job.
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samanthawang
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Oh the legacy of the one child policy.
samanthawang
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It is actually not rude in Chinese culture to call people fat. When people first meet it is quite common for people to comment on others weight in no uncertain terms.
I think it is bloody rude but we can hardly teach 20% of the world population new ways.
SteveW
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I am sure the English teacher in question if he reads this site will know exactly who this girl is.
So to you Sir may I ask at the next class can you please take the time to go up to this girl and in the nicest way possible slap the stuck up bitch around the head and throw her out of your class.
Peace
ptscptsc
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half way through number 3 was all I could take. You sound like the worst kind irritating, pain in th a**, spoiled little child. You deserve a good slap for the first 2 and maybe the rest too
herojuana
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Oh man, you didn't even get to the racist parts.
This bitch has her head waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay up her ass.
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TheIncredibleEgg
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Youi've got the social skills of a grumpy high-school kid.
The teacher has good reasons for ignoring you. Hope he kicks you out next time.
YunRui
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@OP: Little or no self-respect = little or disrespect for others, centering on your own selfish needs. You see a lot of that around here...
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admin
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OP your English teacher is obviously a genius ... He knows exactly how to push your buttons and get you all riled up -- and using your English skills.
Now enough of the flirting and get the guy in bed, you know you want each other.
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alishan
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You live you learn.
ilovemusic
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so many eggs and tomatos on me. help------------ !!!!!
maybe i did something wrong. maybe i should apologize to my teacher. but i think he also did something wrong. we both have some faults. why should a lady apologize first? let me think it over.
Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are your own fears
jericko
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utterly doubtless that you are important enough for him to even think about apologizing to you. you are probably more like a nuisance that you forget about five minutes after the lesson's over
herojuana
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He hasn't done anything wrong, from what you've written.
You have been consistently rude and disrespectful towards him.
For example, if you enter a room and there are people in the room having a conversation, there's no reason why they have to stop talking and make a special point to greet you. Who do you think you are, the Queen of England?
Even if you personally did think that was a little rude, maybe he was engrossed in the conversation and was trying to give his attention to the student he was talking to.
Does that really require you to get "revenge" on him by insulting his job?
That's the kind of thing a high school girl would do to a teacher she has a foolish crush on if she feels the teacher has ignored her.
Grow up.
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admin
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OP also don't worry about trying to show too much respect towards him. It's not part of our culture to respect teachers.
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admin
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stick around this forum and you'll definitely improve your english comprehension and knowledge of obscure insults!
In fact, this forum is so good for improving ones' English that I'm re-naming my business Everyday A-hole English
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ilovemusic
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i do not think saying english teacher will be disppeared is insullting him. i will say i was kidding and making fun of him. if he feels i am insulting him , i think he is to serious.
Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are your own fears
otto
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I think it's very clear you're a petty, vindictive little brat.
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."