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Posted Oct 7, 2011 9:31am by weagesdf

Is it just me or do Chinese people treat all women as whores? Because it is usually like a business arrangement..
I get most of my information from chinese girls. But often if when I am with 8-10's (excluding the ones who are in love with foreign countries that have studied abroad), they always give these weird comments to me, like I should pay for their meals and sh*t. Sometimes when I break up with a girl, she will have something of mine, and I will ask for it back, and she will say something along the lines of "when i was together with you i lost my virginity so you should pay me".
So I say "so your a whore? Huh? You know that's illegal in china, how about we go to the police station right now whore?" In which case I get whatever back.

But girls here mainly look for a guy long term that has wealth, that's all that basically matters to them. (Most the girls I've been with here have been married/had boyfriends, so they do still want fun). Chinese girls have told me that most families want boys, the ones that want girls want to make money, because if they have a pretty girl, than she can find a boy to pay them money for marriage.
Is this just me or does that sound like a lease on a prostitute?

I have a chinese friend that is a girl, she has to come home every holiday with money or she says she loses face because she has to take care of her 50 year old parents that took care of her. They tell her the same thing to get married so the boyfriend can pay them.
(none of these apply to girls that are very rich that I have seen, they know I am a poor laowai and just want fun:))

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管


Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: 56785678 on Oct 7, 2011 1:07pm

Clown Yes You are fun. You are generous with your consumable body. Rich girls respect you, enjoy you for free; poor girls always vision you as husbands material.

不怕神一样的敌人 就怕猪一样的队友

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Count_zero on Oct 7, 2011 5:07pm

> So I say "so your a whore? Huh? You know that's illegal in china, how about we go to the police station right now whore?" In which case I get whatever back.

LOL...

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: crabby on Oct 8, 2011 6:15am

there is a saying in chinese, people with same virtue attract each other, I guess you and your girl are not too different from each other.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: joepie on Oct 10, 2011 2:37pm

OP:

you should respect yourself
and most of all, you should respect women

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: aroma_sky on Oct 10, 2011 2:57pm

Life is realistic.Try to understand the feeling if a girl is abandoned and nothing left rather than only focus on your money.Women are human being, they have feeling, don't treat them like pets. If you the person has left her, at least your money can give her some comfort.Maybe you can forget at once, she can not.

Why do men lie to women so easily? Just because a man just needs to give the start, then the lie is done by the woman herself.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: joepie on Oct 10, 2011 4:28pm

OP should come to understand the history of this country and its current conditions; it might give him some understanding of the topic he is dealing with. Many people in this place have no choice. And then there comes the rich foreigner, who has all the choice in the world. Tell us you feel no shame when you relate your words to this.

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: weagesdf on Oct 10, 2011 9:25pm
joepie wrote:
OP should come to understand the history of this country and its current conditions; it might give him some understanding of the topic he is dealing with. Many people in this place have no choice. And then there comes the rich foreigner, who has all the choice in the world. Tell us you feel no shame when you relate your words to this.

Whether you have money or not moralities are still moralities. I'm not rich I make 100 rmb a month. I live inside a dead person for warmth.

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: otto on Oct 11, 2011 10:19am
weagesdf wrote:
joepie wrote:
OP should come to understand the history of this country and its current conditions; it might give him some understanding of the topic he is dealing with. Many people in this place have no choice. And then there comes the rich foreigner, who has all the choice in the world. Tell us you feel no shame when you relate your words to this.

Whether you have money or not moralities are still moralities. I'm not rich I make 100 rmb a month. I live inside a dead person for warmth.

bahahaha! piss myself Laughing

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: maggie0608 on Oct 12, 2011 10:38am

every country has its own custom,maybe in China,they need do so.sometimes we should understand them

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Lipstick on Oct 13, 2011 2:55pm

somebody have to earn money and somebody have to spend the money!

for ex, boys earn the money, girls spend the money!

Oops i did it again!

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: weagesdf on Oct 14, 2011 7:03pm

yes lipstick. chinese girls are all wh0res.

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Lipstick on Oct 17, 2011 2:29pm
weagesdf wrote:
yes lipstick. chinese girls are all wh0res.

hey, i did not meat that,
I mean "somebody must earn money and somebody spend that, cannot earn earn ....."

Oops i did it again!

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: nanananayeah on Oct 17, 2011 2:51pm
Lipstick wrote:
hey, i did not meat that

Drooling

Trust me, it's so danger.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: 56785678 on Oct 17, 2011 3:02pm
weagesdf wrote:
yes lipstick. chinese girls are all wh0res.

LIE.

不怕神一样的敌人 就怕猪一样的队友

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Lipstick on Oct 18, 2011 12:10pm
nanananayeah wrote:
Lipstick wrote:
hey, i did not mean that

Drooling

oh！ again ？？？！ Nail Biting

Oops i did it again!

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Max Renn on Oct 18, 2011 6:23pm

You'd swear only Chinese women are attracted to men with money... Confused

Translation: all women prefer men with money, just like all men prefer women with breasts. Every country is the same.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: weagesdf on Oct 18, 2011 9:24pm
Max Renn wrote:
You'd swear only Chinese women are attracted to men with money... Confused

Translation: all women prefer men with money, just like all men prefer women with breasts. Every country is the same.

Not in america. They care about status and personality. f*ck head.

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: jessica H on Oct 19, 2011 5:25am

OP,
you need to face the truth that you dont LOVE each other. because if the relationship was ever mean something to you guys, you wouldn't say such things to each other after your break up.

i have spent more money on one of my ex boyfriends than he did. which depends on the situation. for exmple : who earn more or who is in a better life status.

women is naturally the weaker sex than men. especially in this country, so many men mistreat women and laws dont protect women, i do understand why so many women are desperate looking for money,some of them really don't have a better choice.

"But girls here mainly look for a guy long term that has wealth, that's all that basically matters to them. (Most the girls I've been with here have been married/had boyfriends, so they do still want fun). "

in your case, you knew most of the women already married or in a relationship, why you still "be with them", which means you have serious problem to choose partners. or you just wanted the sex games. so don't blame them, you're not different from them.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: jessica H on Oct 19, 2011 5:30am
crabby wrote:
there is a saying in chinese, people with same virtue attract each other, I guess you and your girl are not too different from each other.

well said. i totally agreed.

as growing older, i dont always blaming on other people's mistakes. you make your life and you decide whom you are with.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Lipstick on Oct 19, 2011 9:32am

what is different chinese relationships?
american, chinese and kazaxtsan ,,,, all same
all like money, all like breast
all care about own status and personality
nothing different between chinese relationships and other relationship

Oops i did it again!

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: Max Renn on Oct 19, 2011 8:24pm
weagesdf wrote:
Max Renn wrote:
You'd swear only Chinese women are attracted to men with money... Confused

Translation: all women prefer men with money, just like all men prefer women with breasts. Every country is the same.

Not in america. They care about status and personality. f*ck head.

You think Chinese women only like men who have a lot of money, and American women only like men based on status and personality?

Fact: most Chinese women are not married to rich guys.

There goes your theory.

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: weagesdf on Oct 19, 2011 8:57pm
jessica H wrote:
OP,
you need to face the truth that you dont LOVE each other. because if the relationship was ever mean something to you guys, you wouldn't say such things to each other after your break up.

i have spent more money on one of my ex boyfriends than he did. which depends on the situation. for exmple : who earn more or who is in a better life status.

women is naturally the weaker sex than men. especially in this country, so many men mistreat women and laws dont protect women, i do understand why so many women are desperate looking for money,some of them really don't have a better choice.

"But girls here mainly look for a guy long term that has wealth, that's all that basically matters to them. (Most the girls I've been with here have been married/had boyfriends, so they do still want fun). "

in your case, you knew most of the women already married or in a relationship, why you still "be with them", which means you have serious problem to choose partners. or you just wanted the sex games. so don't blame them, you're not different from them.

sex for fun is fun.
sex for money is a whore.

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: weagesdf on Oct 19, 2011 9:10pm
jessica H wrote:
OP,
you need to face the truth that you dont LOVE each other. because if the relationship was ever mean something to you guys, you wouldn't say such things to each other after your break up.

i have spent more money on one of my ex boyfriends than he did. which depends on the situation. for exmple : who earn more or who is in a better life status.

women is naturally the weaker sex than men. especially in this country, so many men mistreat women and laws dont protect women, i do understand why so many women are desperate looking for money,some of them really don't have a better choice.

"But girls here mainly look for a guy long term that has wealth, that's all that basically matters to them. (Most the girls I've been with here have been married/had boyfriends, so they do still want fun). "

in your case, you knew most of the women already married or in a relationship, why you still "be with them", which means you have serious problem to choose partners. or you just wanted the sex games. so don't blame them, you're not different from them.

girl have sex for fun = fun
girl have sex for money = whore

girls should only have sex with guys who are really good in bed and look hot.

They call me 撸撸.
I am Mr. 撸管

Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: walls on Oct 25, 2011 10:46am
joepie wrote:
OP:

you should respect yourself
and most of all, you should respect women

This is just said to cozy up to females. People should respect all.

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: angelwhite on Jan 7, 2012 1:41am

It's a matter of cultural difference.

My father said men who doesn't pay the money for ladies are not real men.
But at the same time, he told me not to spend a single penny of a man while dating.
It makes me confused a lot. Maybe he wants me to date American guys. Who knows?

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Re: Chinese relationships

Posted by: MsTang on Jan 7, 2012 8:36am
angelwhite wrote:
It's a matter of cultural difference.

My father said men who doesn't pay the money for ladies are not real men.

He meant real Chinese men pay for prostitutes.
Status thing.

MrTang is a f-kin idiot!
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