what do u want really??? what kind of fairy tale... and how he was a jerk... otherwise cant give u advice, and think carefully how do u think u can be the princess in the fairy tale.... would u love a guy like fairy tale not realistic? swicth the position u will feel better about your life and down to earth would bring u some happiness

It doesn't exist because you never truely loved!

if that works, it might be worth it

Love.. needs time.

When there is instant mutual attraction (= "I can't get him/her out of my mind!") then there is potential for mutual growth.

True love is about that feeling of recognizing something in another person, and falling in love with that person. What we really fall in love with, is our own "true self". We see it mirrored in the one we fall in love with. Thus, we don't fall in love with another person; our heart is simply opened and thus our eyes are enabled to see reality. Reality in its purest form is "delicious".

I feel that love is not about things like "I can't live without him/her" or whatever fantasy like that, even though we most likely all go through that stage (I sure did).

I think it is essential to realize that we do not - and can not, for that matter - be in love with anyone or anything outside our self. If we do, we are likely to get lost. We start to think we need that other person, or that other thing, in order to feel good. But that is a myth of gigantic proportions.

Love is natural. We can't force it. When it comes, it comes. When it's not there yet, it means we have to clean up the sh*t that is blocking the awareness of our own true self. All other things are like drugs: a way to escape the confrontation with your self, and reality. Escaping reality hurts. That is why "love hurts".

So love your self first, do your own thing, and all else will come. Be true to your self. True love can only find you when you remain centered in your own heart. When true love then finally knocks at your door, you'll be armed with your heart, your love, your charm and whatnot to make it work together. It is not some fairytale that makes everything right, everyone happy and no effort. It is not something that will magically cure you of your shitty situation. No, it requires effort. And what is more delicious than putting your effort in seeing your true love as he/she really is, supporting them in their growth, accepting them for who they are including all their flaws, knowing that love lights the way? Only by giving love can we know love. It is really so simple.

Return to love, love your self, see love in everyone and everything that come your way.

Its a Libra-trait

So you mean you were taught true love is about materialistic needs, aka LV/iPhone/car etc?

those are useless, unnecessary and depressing ideas

It seems your highness is awfully ugly, ain't you? But you got that right: You may buy a date.

Correct. After all, who wants to marry a 吃软饭的?

If you dont have love...you have nothing. You were born with nothing and you will leave with nothing...EXCEPT the love you have given and gained along the way.... Your posessions will stay when yu leave this world.

love story is everyday in my life now.

when i'm with him i feel full of everything, the first 24h i am not with him is the worst, feeling so empty like dying, after i feel good cause i know i can see him anytime i want and i am working hard for our life, taking good care of myself for reducing his troubles, and keep happy because i know he doesn't like to see i'm unhappy.

every evening we text each other sharing opinions until one fall asleep. i am usually the one ^^. then he still sends me a text say good nite. so loving...

好幸福~~

Dont forget....slip a little tongue...lol