Do you enjoy being loved or loving others if you can only choose one?

osamabinladen

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Posted by: osamabinladen on Nov 12, 2011 7:42pm

why don't you go get f***ed with your stupid f-ing pointless threads?

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nugaze

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Posted by: nugaze on Nov 13, 2011 12:25am

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ladygloria

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Posted by: ladygloria on Nov 13, 2011 4:04pm

osamabinladen wrote:

why don't you go get f***ed with your stupid f-ing pointless threads?

I did before.
To women, it doesn't work without feeling in love.
So I quit, and focus on philosophy of love.

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nugaze

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Posted by: nugaze on Nov 14, 2011 11:47am

Loving is more enjoyable than being loved, it brings more pleasure seeing your actions making someone else happy.
What about you?

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cool girl

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Posted by: cool girl on Nov 14, 2011 3:57pm

u mean being lovedby the person u love...

timing for leap, i am contented as a woman

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Posted by: nanananayeah on Nov 14, 2011 4:42pm

BOILING HOT URINE

Trust me, it's so danger.

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The Lizard King

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Posted by: The Lizard King on Nov 14, 2011 4:44pm

IN THE EYES

oh yeah? well, let me ask you this: shut up!
contemporary china = crouching tension, hidden anger.

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blackgrey

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Posted by: blackgrey on Nov 14, 2011 7:22pm

being love~^^~

If can do one thing, would be great.

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ladygloria

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Posted by: ladygloria on Nov 15, 2011 9:44pm

nugaze wrote:

Loving is more enjoyable than being loved, it brings more pleasure seeing your actions making someone else happy.
What about you?

me,too!
Even I would lose him letting him know I love him.
I'm not good at lying or hiding feelings.
It's not good for a relationship, but that's me. Almost always the lovelorn, haha!

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nugaze

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Posted by: nugaze on Nov 15, 2011 11:05pm

Can you really separate loving and being loved?
Is it not possible to do both at the same time in a passionate embrace?

If they are separated, is it not just one way? And is that really love?

Love, lovely love. It's lovely to talk about love.

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Cat.

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Posted by: Cat. on Nov 16, 2011 12:00am

osamabinladen wrote:

why don't you go get f***ed with your stupid f-ing pointless threads?

Ladygloria, seriously i'm not the only one here who does't fully understand the thread you started. what does "love or being loved" have anything to do with "love physically or mentally"?

by any luck if i understand you right, maybe you mean the choice between:

1) love someone who doesn't love you at all
2) being loved by someone who you don't love at all

"physically" or "mentally" - what the hell?

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heir_apparent

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Posted by: heir_apparent on Nov 16, 2011 12:08am

This is a confusing one. Ultimately depending on your personality I would guess, being a giver or a taker.

But I didn't really get your question of being loved physically or mentally. A relationship without sex?

It has to go both ways anyway, or you are just loving from a distance, which will end up hurting yourself

Ahh! Beijing. Finally.

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blackgrey

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Posted by: blackgrey on Nov 16, 2011 12:09am

If can do one thing, would be great.

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Cat.

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Posted by: Cat. on Nov 16, 2011 12:12am

blackgrey. you new avatar is so cute. a little baby dragon!

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ladygloria

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Posted by: ladygloria on Nov 16, 2011 6:05pm

Cat. wrote:

osamabinladen wrote:

why don't you go get f***ed with your stupid f-ing pointless threads?

Ladygloria, seriously i'm not the only one here who does't fully understand the thread you started. what does "love or being loved" have anything to do with "love physically or mentally"?

by any luck if i understand you right, maybe you mean the choice between:

1) love someone who doesn't love you at all
2) being loved by someone who you don't love at all

"physically" or "mentally" - what the hell?

Anyway,you got it!

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ladygloria

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Posted by: ladygloria on Nov 16, 2011 6:12pm

heir_apparent wrote:

This is a confusing one. Ultimately depending on your personality I would guess, being a giver or a taker.

But I didn't really get your question of being loved physically or mentally. A relationship without sex?

It has to go both ways anyway, or you are just loving from a distance, which will end up hurting yourself

It has nothing to do with sex.
By physically, I mean the guy can give you enjoyment by pleasing you with gifts, sweet words, etc.But deep in your heart he's not attractive to you.
By mentally, I mean the guy treat you bad, you feel painful most of the time, but you enjoy the pain coz in your heart there's only one person...

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ladygloria

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Posted by: ladygloria on Nov 16, 2011 6:12pm

heir_apparent wrote:

This is a confusing one. Ultimately depending on your personality I would guess, being a giver or a taker.

But I didn't really get your question of being loved physically or mentally. A relationship without sex?

It has to go both ways anyway, or you are just loving from a distance, which will end up hurting yourself

It has nothing to do with sex.
By physically, I mean the guy can give you enjoyment by pleasing you with gifts, sweet words, etc.But deep in your heart he's not attractive to you.
By mentally, I mean the guy treat you bad, you feel painful most of the time, but you enjoy the pain coz in your heart there's only one person...

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Cat.

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Posted by: Cat. on Nov 16, 2011 6:30pm

ladygloria wrote:

By mentally, I mean the guy treat you bad, you feel painful most of the time, but you enjoy the pain coz in your heart there's only one person...

Stupid.

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 17, 2011 10:59am

Cat,she means that if you love someone unconditionally then if they treat you badly you still love them.It's not uncommon,I have come across it before - althought these people usually end up at the psychiatrist to fix their brain!!!

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blackgrey

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Posted by: blackgrey on Nov 17, 2011 11:24am

hell

If can do one thing, would be great.

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Cat.

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Posted by: Cat. on Nov 17, 2011 12:18pm

alwn1708 wrote:

Cat,she means that if you love someone unconditionally then if they treat you badly you still love them.It's not uncommon,I have come across it before - althought these people usually end up at the psychiatrist to fix their brain!!!

i know exactly what she meant. pathetic to love somebody who treats you like a piece of garbage. totally, stupid.

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 17, 2011 1:19pm

So how do so many chinese men stay married?

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Cat.

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Posted by: Cat. on Nov 17, 2011 3:49pm

alwn1708 wrote:

So how do so many chinese men stay married?

Exactly.

Have fun as much as you can before you figure out what you want in life and settle with one woman for the rest of your life. But most Chinese men are doing the opposite.

It's scary to marry someone who has no clue about women yet.

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DaveyTree

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Posted by: DaveyTree on Nov 17, 2011 4:04pm

Chinese complain that laowais are so easy to eachother, they have sex even in first date; But laowai complain that Chinese are so random, they must marry to each other as soon as they having sex.

culture shock.

But as society developing, here has a new phenomena, some expats coming to China to marry local whores but expats even don't know that.

This is not culture shock, this is...........culture joke.

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 17, 2011 4:44pm

Cat,agree but with the free radicals that we have now and the power of new money (coupled with the fact that many have'nt a clue what to do with it )the female fraternity are becoming equally blase.

Davey,yes is a sad fact that foreign people have to come and live in china because chinese men are so inadequate.

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xiaomaomao

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Posted by: xiaomaomao on Nov 17, 2011 8:25pm

DaveyTree wrote:

Chinese complain that laowais are so easy to eachother, they have sex even in first date; But laowai complain that Chinese are so random, they must marry to each other as soon as they having sex.

culture shock.

But as society developing, here has a new phenomena, some expats coming to China to marry local whores but expats even don't know that.

This is not culture shock, this is...........culture joke.

Yes, the foreigne think they marry butiferl princess but actualy is The Whore of Jinkelong.

Expat no knows his wife is village bicycle and she no love him. Makes insecure Chinese man happy. Also make me happy too.

Hopefully China can keep up with silly ideas about different races cos today world too mixed and global. Mixed race relationship also make me vomit blood.

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 17, 2011 9:13pm

xiaomaomao wrote:

DaveyTree wrote:

Chinese complain that laowais are so easy to eachother, they have sex even in first date; But laowai complain that Chinese are so random, they must marry to each other as soon as they having sex.

culture shock.

But as society developing, here has a new phenomena, some expats coming to China to marry local whores but expats even don't know that.

This is not culture shock, this is...........culture joke.

Yes, the foreigne think they marry butiferl princess but actualy is The Whore of Jinkelong.

Expat no knows his wife is village bicycle and she no love him. Makes insecure Chinese man happy. Also make me happy too.

Hopefully China can keep up with silly ideas about different races cos today world too mixed and global. Mixed race relationship also make me vomit blood.

Life is like a jar of jalapenos,what you do today might burn your ass tomorrow

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 17, 2011 9:22pm

alwn1708 wrote:

xiaomaomao wrote:

DaveyTree wrote:

Chinese complain that laowais are so easy to eachother, they have sex even in first date; But laowai complain that Chinese are so random, they must marry to each other as soon as they having sex.

culture shock.

But as society developing, here has a new phenomena, some expats coming to China to marry local whores but expats even don't know that.

This is not culture shock, this is...........culture joke.

Yes, the foreigne think they marry butiferl princess but actualy is The Whore of Jinkelong.

Expat no knows his wife is village bicycle and she no love him. Makes insecure Chinese man happy. Also make me happy too.

Hopefully China can keep up with silly ideas about different races cos today world too mixed and global. Mixed race relationship also make me vomit blood.

Sunshine,the only culture joke is your ability (or lack of) to communicate in english. I suggest you take your insecurities and insert them somewhere that the sun does'nt shine

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The Lizard King

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Posted by: The Lizard King on Nov 18, 2011 8:12am

xiaomaomao, i think i love you!

oh yeah? well, let me ask you this: shut up!
contemporary china = crouching tension, hidden anger.

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alwn1708

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Posted by: alwn1708 on Nov 18, 2011 8:44am

Yes, the foreigne think they marry butiferl princess but actualy is The Whore of Jinkelong.

Expat no knows his wife is village bicycle and she no love him. Makes insecure Chinese man happy. Also make me happy too.

Hopefully China can keep up with silly ideas about different races cos today world too mixed and global. Mixed race relationship also make me vomit blood.

I would'nt bother wih the conversation unless you are fluent in whatever errr - language? This is!

Life is like a jar of jalapenos,what you do today might burn your ass tomorrow