is it a sign of breaking up?
- Joined: May 5th, 2011
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bf said i am too passionate but he is cold person cant afford passionate love,for that i lost control last night and yelled at him. then he said we try not to talk for a week and let me to feel his care about me. cos i always say he doesnt pay enough attention to me.is it a sign of breaking up? he said he loves me, but why i cant feel that? or just cos his love not strong enough? but what is love? why there is so much bitterness in it? what should i do to make both feel better? i love him otherwise i wont feel so sad and helpless. god help 
life is an empty dream
jas5sk
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
...This thread is TOO SAD!
Bench 400 or die trying.
cool girl
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
pity girl, u will feel better i can comfort you~
woman is a small part of man's life, dont demand too much and also keep urself as a independent woman, when u start realise he is just human being like anybody else, then u must feel a lot better
i have heart somebody said if u dont take love or relationship as serious then u wont get hurt in yor life
timing for leap, i am contented as a woman
aşkım
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
true love doesnt exist in this world? ：（
life is an empty dream
MsTang
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
don't listen to cool girl, this was he last boy friend.
(many years ago)
MrTang is a f-kin idiot!
WAR PLAN RED
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fancyrabbit
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Passionate means crazy sometimes.
I am hoping for better days.
cool girl
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
love always true, but different love is also different, some can defeat the time and allelse difficulities, however some dont
timing for leap, i am contented as a woman
qwe_322
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
are your bf muslim guy?
You should love woman so much that she never could think somebody can love her more...
sexy beast
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Don't listen to the b.s., get yourself out if you don't feel positive about it... True personal experience
This f-ing thing is slow as sh*t, can somebody just fix it...
dan4
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
OP....
Damn I'm hot. I'm on fire!
whereisshenmue3
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
OP sounds like she is crazy.
why do chinese girls have such ridiculous expecatations.
they are too easily influenced by any romantic movie
it's got to be constant protestations of love and flowers everrything has to be so romantic and passionate and cute and perfect and .................... or you don't love them anymore ... grrrrrrr
people have different personalities.
some are needy, some are not
apologies for generalizing.
dcici
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
it gets so complicated if you fall in love with a person who speaks different language as yours. you know it is hard sometimes even that you two are from the same country and speak same language.but at least you have better understanding of each other.
give it a little time.
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The Equalizer
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Darling, Why are you so troubled? I told you "I love you" 50 years ago. If I change my mind I will let you know
If your hungover and wishing you were dead, then its not so bad. If your hungover and wondering why your not dead it might be bad.
The Equalizer
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
To askim:
It's not always the guys fault just because you think you are right. I was driving down the road just the other day and my girlfriend asked "What has happenned to us? We always used to sit so close to each other in the car." I was confused, because I have always been driving, so always been sitting in the same place, so I haven't moved at all, yet somehow it's my fault.
If your hungover and wishing you were dead, then its not so bad. If your hungover and wondering why your not dead it might be bad.
cool girl
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
LOL
timing for leap, i am contented as a woman
langzixinxin
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
YES! It is a sign of breaking up.
You still can win him back, but not by love, by "strategy".
My name is Chinese: for we are many.
Leon Walsky
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Walk away. It shouldn't be this hard.
I demand good spices.
The Equalizer
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Sounds like the beginning of the end. It's over when you have fought about the sex, money, and control. However, there is one chance to still save it. Give her the BEST orgasm of her life, don't let her out of bed until you give her another, and then she will fall back in love with you.
If your hungover and wishing you were dead, then its not so bad. If your hungover and wondering why your not dead it might be bad.
otto
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
dickhead. OP is a broad.
"Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats."
blackgrey
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
I disagree！
love is the first！
If can do one thing, would be great.
dan4
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Hmmmmm...inability to distinguish between male and female genitalia could have been a major factor in his wife's decision to leave him...
Damn I'm hot. I'm on fire!
chaofan
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Come on, be easy on her, she is feeling sad. It has nothing to do with being Chinese, anyone who has had a gf before knows they all like that stuff, U.S. British, Canadian, and yes, Chinese too!
Yes, I read that quote from your boyfriend, it is very clear, leave him now, he cares nothing for you. It will hurt for the short term but you will be better for doing so in the long term.
If he used those exact words and you stay with him then you are the fool. Hope you are not a fool.
The Equalizer
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Oh my God. OP is a girl. Forgot to look at the beginning. In that case, give him the BEST bj he has ever had in his life, then inform him its the last one and he is not your responsibility any longer, and disappear. If ever he gives you a late night booty call or tries to come back again, inform him its too late and you have found too many other guys that are very happy to treat you right in mind, heart, bed, and life.
Dont feel sorry for him anymore. (You could always disappear as China is a big country and he will never find you.)
If your hungover and wishing you were dead, then its not so bad. If your hungover and wondering why your not dead it might be bad.
blackgrey
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
If can do one thing, would be great.
sexy beast
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
I am laughing my ass off, The Equalizer
This f-ing thing is slow as sh*t, can somebody just fix it...
sexy beast
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
I am laughing my ass off, The Equalizer
This f-ing thing is slow as sh*t, can somebody just fix it...
kukudi1028
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
sometimes we need to feel love, instead of seeing it.
whiteboyinchina
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Love is not a word it's an action. Many can say they love but don't show it with their actions. Love is the hole in your heart once they are are gone but unfortunatly you don't notice untill they are gone.
Set it free and if it comes back it is yours. If it doesn't hunt it down, kill it, and eat it for dinner.
"Set it free and if it comes back it is yours. If it doesn't hunt it down, kill it, and eat it for dinner."
releasemetomato
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
I suggest you to read that book "He is not that into you "and it may help you to figure it out.
One Aidan,please.
FreeRadical
Re: is it a sign of breaking up?
Maybe he has another lover.....maybe he visitng too many Barber Shops...too many haircuts is a sure sign....maybe he visits massagy girls....Beijing is a big place....you are too passionate....easy ...PM Otto....your boyfriend troubles are all over. He is a nice guy with many many ideas on how you can express your passion....just sayin'
STFU already...