How to Handle and Report Domestic Violence on Beijing’s Streets

Last week, at around 2.30am I was passing through my regular short-cut between Guozijian and Fangjia Hutong, and saw a woman being slapped in the face by a man, as she was backing up down an alley, crying, and pleading for him to stop.

It only took me seconds to decide what to do and went to the local police station, which was luckily only 10 meters away, if that. Upon explaining the situation, I was told by the older male police officers on duty that, “it seems like they knew each other. Don’t mind them.”

“Don’t mind them.” They repeated as they urged me to leave, kind of snickering at how distressed I was, apparently a reaction stemming from awkwardness or because they genuinely thought it was hilarious that I had feelings.

I considered getting involved but in the end decided to walk away from the situation, realizing that it might bring more harm than good to myself, especially considering I wouldn't be able to rely on the nearby policemen. In the end, I took solace in the fact that the police merely walking over to observe the situation had stopped the man from slapping the woman in the face. Whether the beating continued in the "safety" of the couple's home is anyone's guess.

Living in Beijing can sometimes feel like living in a safe bubble, generally speaking, and I was completely caught off-guard by what I witnessed that night. To learn about the measures one can take if you happen to stumble across such behavior, I reached out to a Beijing-based NGO that deals with domestic violence. One member of staff told me that the police were unlikely to respond if you show up at their station, as there are official steps for reporting violence, a possible explanation for the blasé attitude I encountered. The situation depends on the victim reporting the abuse as a means to establish evidence of domestic violence, otherwise the police aren't obliged to investigate. These are the steps you should follow if you witness abuse:

  1. Call 110 and tell the dispatchers the location and situation. If the 110 dispatchers receive a complaint, they are legally bound to send the police to the scene of the incident.
  2. If you're calling 110 after receiving no face-to-face help from a local police station, as was the case in my situation, be sure to have recorded any badge numbers of those officers that you spoke to at the station (this should be on their uniform), and report them to the dispatchers. These two steps are the general legal response to violence on the street, and may not be covered under domestic violence law because, as stated above, you cannot establish evidence of domestic violence through hitting alone, unless the victim themselves admits to being beaten but at least the presence of the police should put a stop to the incident.
  3. Also note down the badge numbers of any dispatched policemen and request that they record the incident if they're equipped with cameras (执法记录仪, zhifa jilu yi).
  4. If it is a particularly risky situation it's probably best to leave the scene of the crime, but you must at some point identify yourself to the dispatchers over the phone as anonymous reports aren’t accepted. Dispatchers are not always cooperative (yay, China!), so it is important to remain composed and state the facts clearly. 

As of March 1, China's first anti-domestic violence law took effect, which will hopefully go some way to reduce the 50,000 reports of domestic abuse received annually and help the estimated one in four Chinese women that suffer at the hands of a spouse or family member.

The law takes steps to define family abuse, and streamlines the process of obtaining restraining orders, a huge step forward for Chinese human rights and one that will make enforcing the law easier. However, it still remains to be seen when these changes will take effect on the streets and if you'll be able to rely on your local policemen to intervene any time soon.

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Can't agree with you anymore!

lmao I think he's just speaking strayan

I think this "macho instinct getting kicked off here in Beijing" thing is really worthy of discussion. 

I was a very peaceful and gentle person until I came back to Beijing about 2 years ago. Living here gradually wears me out and has made me much grumpier than I was. I sometimes act like an asshole. I hate it, but I really don't know how to stop it and get rid of all my crazy and violent thoughts. Like if I ride a bike in the bike lane but a car keeps beeping me from behind, I'd literally want to turn around and smash my bike onto the car. Sometimes when I'm cut in line by someone, I'd do nothing if he appears like a migrant worker who has yet to learn the rules, but I'd literally like push the person to the side if he or she seems like a CBD wanky banker, and I'd be ready for a fight.  

Last week I had Subway for lunch at Kerry Center B1 level. The Subway shop was full and there wasn't a place for me to sit down and eat, so I went out and spotted a couple of empty tables outside the store next door which is a pizza place called Ifresh Pizza, so I sat there to have my sub. A few minutes later there came a waitress and she told me that I couldn't eat there because they just have a new rule, and there's camera and they'd get fined if they allow a non-patron to eat at their table, even though it's ousdie the store. My blood was like boiling instantly and I told her 老子就是愿意在这儿吃  (your old man eats wherever he feels like to eat), and I told her to shut the f**k up and get out of my sight. 

I was very sorry about that afterwards and I don't know why I turned out to be so savage.   

I suspect it has something to do with me feeling so helpless, insecure, unimportant and incompetent deep inside, so I have to act aggressive in surface as a way of defense or compensation, and I don't think I'm the only one who suffers from this psychological symptom. 

I think lots of people would want to vent their feelings and opinions on why Beijing has made us assholes. 

I am all for peaceful resolution ..Like i said if its just a smack on the face( most def not cool) I can walk away ...with something like that, getting all bro\bra would almost for sure make it worse.

But If a woman is getting a real beat down and your standing there talking about "Please stop beating the shit out of your girl" you need to rethink your "non violent intervention"

As for calling the police ...admin..did you not read your own article?

I get what you mean by saying " white night" spassy, but your super popular PC rhetoric makes me sad. If a man would beat a woman like that he does need a beat down ...much worse then the one he gave.

mike

Unfortunately this seems to be a Chinese culture thing. I have witnessed it many times, well a handful of times anyways. I think hitting your wife or gf is more or less acceptable in China..

My brother-in-law's sister was beat to holy hell by her husband and no one in the family really even batted an eye..I am really not so much of a tough guy but if someone did that to my sis I would bath the streets in his blood. He would not be able to run far enough!

The same BIL hit my wife's sister...smacked her..when we were on vacation .I asked if I should do something , my wife said to leave it. I told my wife I am not cool with it at all..even the other way , if she (as tiny as she is) hit me in anger we would have big issues.

As far as letting the cops know ...cops are worthless here ..only thing they are good for is extorting hookers..

As for me, I already made up my mind..I am no super hero if I see someone smack his girl I will leave it ..if they are beating her I will beat him.

mike

Arvi89 wrote:

schreursm wrote:

Drew Howard wrote:

If I witnessed an attack on a female from a male. The police would have to get me off his head. Never lay a finger on the weaker sex.

Excuse me?

You are weak! Biggrin

 

drew, really?

schreursm wrote:

Drew Howard wrote:

If I witnessed an attack on a female from a male. The police would have to get me off his head. Never lay a finger on the weaker sex.

Excuse me?

You are weak! Biggrin

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Drew Howard wrote:

If I witnessed an attack on a female from a male. The police would have to get me off his head. Never lay a finger on the weaker sex.

 

Excuse me?

the Beijinger

Macho instincts aside, there's got to be a break in the "solving violence with violence" continuum so i suggest that you don't beat someone up that is beating someone else up. Call the police or try to distract / intervene in a non-violent nature is probably the best course of action. 

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