He's like the nagging parent who never fails to point out your weaknesses or call attention to the giant, obvious zit that just formed on your forehead: he only does it cuz he loves us
More like the drunk uncle at holiday events who everyone just hopes will leave early. I understand that the staff doesn't care, but other readers do not appreciate the constant barrage of inane and negative comments. There are plenty of opportunities in Beijing to listen to the rants of miserable aging expats if one wants to.